Children grieve differently—but just as deeply.

The HELP Method equips caregivers, educators, and faith leaders with clear, compassionate guidance to support grieving children in healthy, practical ways.

Born from both personal loss and years of chaplaincy, this method helps you show up with love, presence, and patience when words fall short.

What You’ll Learn:
• How to have honest conversations without overwhelming kids
• What “burst grief” looks like and how to respond to it
• Ways to express emotions together (without judgment)
• How to become a safe, trusted presence for a grieving child
• Why patience, presence, and permission matter more than perfection

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Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, teacher, or caregiver, The HELP Method™ will help you meet children right where they are — without pressure, fear, or guesswork.

This isn’t a theory book. It’s a hands-on guide written in plain language, with real-life stories, practical exercises, and encouragement for both you and the child you’re caring for.


Grief is heavy — but children don’t have to carry it alone.